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We only live our Emotions
We, all human beings, broadly live a Family life, a Commercial life (be that a job, business - for a livelihood) AND a Social life (like being a neighbour, citizen or societal life) during our lifetime.
Within Family life, a man/woman have to do justice to all the three (3) major roles they are expected to play in this life, like being Father/Mother, Husband/Wife, Son/Daughter, and have to nurture a sense of empathy, compassion, right values and gratitude, while playing their due respective roles.
Similarly, in Commercial life, man/woman have to do justice to their respective job/business they are engaged in, and have to have a value creation mindset for the company (be it their own too) and have to strive to justify their role, drive full satisfaction from the role they have accepted to play, be that an employee or a employer.
A man/woman has to necessarily also look beyond family/job/business and need to look for a suitable role play in the intrafamily/neighborhood/society. All interactions with other human beings, other than your family circle and business circle, as a byproduct, enrich all of us emotionally and spiritually and polishes each one of us gainfully.
That was the broader framework in which all human beings operate in their lifetime.
Now, all men/women, depending upon the emotions they are living in, at any point of time, look differently, behave differently, react differently, enjoy differently. The emotions we all live at any point of time is, either we are Happy, lovable & joyous, (means you are healthy, satisfied, appreciated and successful), or you are Sad, fearful, disgusted, contempt and angry (means you are experiencing failure, grief, painful, frustrated, disappointed, feeling of hopelessness and are irritated).
The Happy set of emotions tend to keep you calm and in control, whereas the emotion of Sadness keeps you irritated, violent and on the edge. The reactions of chemicals released in the body in being successful or unsuccessful impacts our digestion, our BP, and our behaviour at family level, commercial level and at society level too. We all have different glow/colour on our faces, spark in our eyes and our skin feels different, our language changes when we are experiencing Happy emotions and otherwise, in case we are experiencing Sad emotions. In nut-shell our body language changes as per the emotion we experience at any point of time.
What that means is that I remaining same, how I look and how I conduct myself in any situation depends upon which emotions I am riding at that point of time.
So, in life, stop judging people. Judgment is a reaction of what you see at any point of time, and it may mislead you. What you get to see is not a complete picture.
Instead, while trying to be as vibrant as is feasible, under both Happy and Sad emotions, exercise cautious optimism in interpreting any situation. Hold back your exuberance when you are happy and joyous, and chin up when you are feeling unhappy about your circumstances.
Tighten up your seat belts. Your calm demeanor, even in unhappy times, helps you have rein of future times ahead of you.